Friday I finally had enough of this bad haircut I've had for the past month so I went back to the salon where I got it cut last and got someone else to do it. They did a fine enough job but because it was not too too long, it's now very short (we're talking army short). I've also been wanting to shave my beard down to the way it used to be, just a thin goatee so I decided what a perfect time to do it, one hour before my gig Friday. Yeah, great. So 15 seconds after finishing I regret it, terribly, I'm stomping around the house grumbling "F#$K! I F$#King hate this!" etc..
It seems my beard gave me some definition for my jaw so I might as well have taken an eraser to my jawline, it's almost gone. Oh, and apparently my face has filled out more with age but at the same time with less hair I look younger, maybe 18 maybe 20. Perhaps I need to worry more and get more wrinkles then I'll look my age. It may be possible but I highly doubt it.
On the plus side not many people have laughed and pointed fingers, I say not many because my boss still can't quite get over how difficult I look. One of my co-workers said I look 14, yeah, thanks. People on the street seem to react better to the beardless Dave, especially women. Maybe I don't look like some snotty artsy guy who is going to tell them everything they're doing wrong, maybe the look is softer, friendlier, or maybe some people just have an aversion to beards, or specifically the modified Abe Lincoln.
Thoughts? Beards? Beardless? Fu Manchu? Goatee? Fuzzy stubble? Hairless?
Posted by Oorgo at August 15, 2005 07:32 PM Permalink - Category: Things | TrackBackI appreciate that you keep this blog going and allow comments. To me feedback is an interesting part of a blog.
Posted by: Melissa at August 15, 2005 09:25 PMThe wifetobe says she doesn't trust men with much facial hair. But ya know, she's suspicious of just about everyone anyways. And we do know that most ladies love a slightly gritty looking guy. I've observed that what works best for me is a slight sandpaper beard, maybe a days or so worth of growth. But that's just me, and I'm a pretty hairless man. A days worth of growth for me is maybe a five o'clock shadow for some.
Posted by: shank at August 16, 2005 08:41 AMYou want a comment on this issue? You need to post a before and after picture, I think. Otherwise, I have no way to judge.
Posted by: R P at August 16, 2005 05:12 PMI used to wear a full beard during the winter, haven't done that in a few years. And I shaved off my mustache once about 12 years ago and my wife hated it.
In general, on guys it doesn't bother me. On gals, it does.
Posted by: Ted at August 17, 2005 05:00 PM